Meet Your Neighbor: Shabana Khan

"When I first walked into a QCH event in November 2023, I had no idea it would lead me to such a meaningful community. A friend invited me to a volunteer appreciation dinner at the Kew Gardens Community Center, and through that experience, I met staff members who introduced me to volunteer opportunities across QCH.

I started by helping at the Queens Center for Gay Seniors during holiday events and birthday celebrations, serving meals and spending time with older adults. Over time, I became involved with programs across different QCH sites, including Neighbors in Action and eBasics at Beacon 149, where I help older adults with technology.

What keeps me volunteering is the sense of community. QCH brings together people from so many different cultures and backgrounds, and everyone is welcomed for who they are. I’ve built meaningful connections with both older adults and young people, and I’ve learned so much from them along the way— not only did I learn the vast diversity of my community, but also how to unite, embrace and practice inclusion throughout all different cultures and breaking through superficial barriers.

One of my favorite memories is learning how to play Rummikub from older adults at the Queens Center for Gay Seniors. Now it’s one of my favorite games, and I always look forward to playing with them.

Before volunteering with QCH, I was going through personal struggles in life and had stepped away from work for a time. Volunteering helped me stay motivated, gain confidence, and grow as a person. I learned leadership skills, how to take initiative, and how to better support others.

What motivates me to continue volunteering is the kindness and appreciation I feel here. QCH became more than a place to volunteer — it became a community where I truly feel I belong."

—Shabana Khan